The internet is jam packed full of online dating websites. Just Google ‘dating’ and you will be presented with a seemingly endless list of sites from which to choose. These traditional dating sites are great if you are on the hunt for Mr or Mrs Right but what if you’re not interested in long term commitment? What if you would prefer no-strings-attached adult fun? This is where adult friend finding websites come into their own.
Adult friend finding sites cater for liberally minded individuals who want to experience adult fun with complete strangers. If that sounds like your cup of tea then you certainly aren’t alone. Adult friend finder websites boast many millions of members worldwide, the most popular site boasting over 20 million members alone.
Most of the sites follow a similar format. Members create a ‘profile’ consisting of a description of themselves and details of the type of person they would like to meet. The profile usually also contains risqué photographs and videos which the member has uploaded (another reason for the popularity of these sites!)
Members are able to search and view each other’s profiles. The sites offer various methods of communication between members including messaging, chat rooms and forums. Some even allow members to post accounts of their adult adventures for all to read!
Success with these sites is not just down to luck. It has been proven that a good quality photograph of your face will drastically increase the number of people who view your profile. If you are the proud owner of an athletic body then include photographs of that too but clothed photos are fine if you are a little shy!
Include as much information as possible within your profile and try to appear approachable. Don’t be afraid to add a little humour. As everyone has different preferences, make sure you state very clearly what ‘floats your boat’ and what is out of bounds.
When searching for other members, don’t make the common mistake of firing off the same message to everyone who takes your fancy. Ensure that others share your interests and live within traveling distance. Make sure you mention some detail of a member’s profile to prove that you have taken the time to read it thoroughly. Don’t come across as pushy or desperate.
Unfortunately not everyone using these sites is as genuine as they should be. You will learn over time to spot time wasters and fakes. A good rule of thumb… if it seems too good to be true, it probably is! Don’t waste your time, move on.